One of the most frequent criticisms northerners direct at London and the south is that the people are so cold and unfriendly in comparison to the cheery Geordies, smiling Scousers, and friendly Tykes. My own observations are inconclusive but their evaluation indicates an important point: friendliness or affability is an important and good thing. Humans are social creatures. We are linked by our common humanity to every person by a special general friendship. As St. Thomas says “we are naturally every man’s friend”.This special virtue of Friendliness is, however, not necessarily about affection. It is about behaving in a becoming manner. Of course there are different degrees of intimacy and behaviour: a relationship with a stranger is very different to that with a friend of longstanding years; likewise our friendly behaviour in a library is very different to friendly behaviour at a dinner party. Nevertheless the common friendship should underline all our social interactions. When we practise this virtue it obliges us to live in an agreeable manner. When we practise this virtue we bring a little bit of joy, we make life pleasant for others. As Aristotle points out “no one could abide a day with the sad, nor with the joyless".
St. Thomas shows that the special virtue of Friendliness is part of justice. Whilst this might seem strange, we each owe one other a natural debt. We are obliged by a natural equity to be pleasant, amicable and friendly, due to the social nature of humanity. It can be a difficult virtue to practise but it helps us to flourish both morally and within society.







A vow is a promise, a special type of promise that is made to God. This promise to God differs from our earthly promises. When we make promises to other people, it is to the benefit of the person to whom we make the promise. When we make a promise to God; it is of no benefit to God but to us. As St. Augustine says,
An oath is calling God to witness a proposition that cannot be confirmed by necessary reason. With an oath, unlike a vow, we take from God rather than give to Him. We take His testimony and witness. We can be confident that these are true because He is Truth: He cannot lie nor is anything hidden from Him. When we swear an oath by God, we acknowledge His unfailing truth and omniscience: we express our faith in Him. It is therefore a grave sin to use an oath frivolously. By doing so we show irreverence to God.
Sacrifice, derived from the Latin sacrum facere - to make something sacred - implies actually doing something to the object we offer. For this to occur four things are needed; a sacrificial
Sacrifice is then, ultimately an act of self surrender to God, whereby we render to Him the praise and reverence that is due through the offering of some ‘sensible object’ in recognition of His complete authority. The highest example of sacrifice can be seen in the complete self surrender and sacrifice of Christ upon the cross for our redemption. This sacrifice is now re-presented for us in the Mass, in which the ordinary objects of bread and wine become the true body and blood of Christ, and through which we have a foretaste of our final transformation and glorification in Him.

Galton's analysis suggests he had many misunderstandings concerning the nature of prayer. Prayer does not cause health in the same way as eating fresh fruit or doing regular exercise might. God is eternal and unchanging, so however hard we try, we cannot change His mind. Rather, it is the other way round – when we pray, it is our minds that are changed; our minds are raised towards God. This does not mean that prayer is a purely subjective experience. God as first cause, not only determines the way the world is, but also how the world has come to be the way it is. As Aquinas puts it 









